How to Get More Independence

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Understand that it's not your parents do not want you to have independence

   Show your parents you can be sensible.
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   Step 2: they want the best for you and think you're not ready or you'll hurt yourself if you have the freedom to do whatever you want.

   If you can't get home by
   9.30, they'll never let you out after
   10.00. ,, They won't feel much worried letting you go off on your own if they know what you're up to. , They won't imagine you getting into trouble if they know how they are. , The less they worry about you, the more independence you'll gain. , If they find out, all that trust will be destroyed and then you'll never get the extra independence you ever wanted.
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   Step 3: Agree a time you'll be home with your parents

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   Step 4: and always make sure you keep to it.

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   Step 5: Agree with them some 'friends time' and some 'family time' so that they know you won't be spending your whole weekend out with your friends

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   Step 6: Always tell your parents where you are

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   Step 7: and who you're with.

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   Step 8: Introduce them to your friends.

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   Step 9: Call in and tell your parents that you're OK from time to time.

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    Step 10: Never lie to your parents about where you're going.

Detailed Guide

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