How to Text a Girl (Middle School)

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Get her number and just say hey to start the conversation.

   If she responds, keep talking.
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   Step 2: When she texts you back

   She will jump to conclusions that she is annoying you and that you hate her, and that you don't like her right away.
   
   Most will anyway.
   
   Not all, so don't assume so. , Plus, girls like it when boys respond quickly. , It makes girls feel like you actually care about what they are saying and have similar feelings. , Try responding with a question about what she just said to keep the conversation going. , or ask how her practice was.
   
   It shows you care and it keeps the conversation going, and shows her that you want to continue talking. ,, She will love to hear it and will probably have something to tell you in return. , You don't have to act all cool all the time.
   
   But don't be so random that you freak her out. , Even if she starts it, try to get around it.
   
   It may sounds clichéd, but gossip is kind of messed up.
   
   You don't want to risk saying something that insults her or one of her friends. , Talk about your siblings or family.
   
   Talk about things you like or dislike, etc. ,,,, If she doesn't respond, just wait.
   
   She's probably busy with something.
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   Step 3: don't take forever to respond.

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   Step 4: If she texts you first

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   Step 5: respond ASAP because

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   Step 6: if she really likes you

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   Step 7: it probably took a lot of effort to push that send button.

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   Step 8: Use lots of emojis.

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   Step 9: Try not to respond with just one word answers like "cool"

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    Step 10: "haha"

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    Step 11: or "lol"; it just shows that you don't care what they have just said

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    Step 12: even if you really do.

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    Step 13: If it gets to the point where you are just saying "soooooo" then it might be better to ask a simple question like "how was your day?"

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    Step 14: Use her name when you are talking about something serious

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    Step 15: or saying good night.

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    Step 16: Tell a funny story about what happened to you that day.

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    Step 17: Be random and funny.

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    Step 18: DO NOT gossip with her about other girls.

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    Step 19: Find things in common.

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    Step 20: FaceTime or Skype every now and then

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    Step 21: if you wish.

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    Step 22: If you ever have to go say

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    Step 23: I gotta go.... Or "I'll brb I have to....." Never leave her hanging.

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    Step 24: If it's nighttime

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    Step 25: tell her "Goodnight" (don't forget to use her name).

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    Step 26: Be patient.

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