How to Chaperone a Prom
Don't dress like you're running for prom queen (or king.), Decide whether it's appropriate to follow the prom theme., When in doubt, go the conservative route., If you're a man, wear a suit and tie instead of a tux., Keep comfort in mind.
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Don't dress like you're running for prom queen (or king.)
Especially if you're over
25.
Put that hot pink prom dress or that cheesy blue tuxedo back in the closet.
Go conservative.
Remember that you are representing the school when you chaperone a prom.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to look and feel great, but don't do it at the cost of ruining the night for the kids there.
Even if you missed your own senior prom, does that really make it right to steal their night to try to make up for it? -
Step 2: Decide whether it's appropriate to follow the prom theme.
Just because the theme is "Adventures Under the Sea" doesn't mean you should show up dressed as a mermaid.
If the chaperones have decided as a group to dress in theme, then you're OK, but if not, you will most likely regret your decision the moment you walk in the door. , The only thing more embarrassing than seeing that one woman dressed in a hot pink ball gown is BEING that woman.
Go conservative
- you can still look nice, just don't steal their moment.
Maybe a conservative little black dress or something classic in a springy color scheme.
If the kids will be in formal wear, then you should too, but keep it under control. , Men who are going as chaperones need not wear a tuxedo, and really should not.
Dad's best bet is to go with a suit and tie—something he would wear to a business meeting. , You will probably be on your feet most of the night, so choose shoes that won't have you hobbling halfway into the party.
You may also be asked to stick around after the party to help tear down, so pick a dress or skirt that will allow you to bend and move somewhat easily. -
Step 3: When in doubt
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Step 4: go the conservative route.
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Step 5: If you're a man
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Step 6: wear a suit and tie instead of a tux.
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Step 7: Keep comfort in mind.
Detailed Guide
Especially if you're over
25.
Put that hot pink prom dress or that cheesy blue tuxedo back in the closet.
Go conservative.
Remember that you are representing the school when you chaperone a prom.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to look and feel great, but don't do it at the cost of ruining the night for the kids there.
Even if you missed your own senior prom, does that really make it right to steal their night to try to make up for it?
Just because the theme is "Adventures Under the Sea" doesn't mean you should show up dressed as a mermaid.
If the chaperones have decided as a group to dress in theme, then you're OK, but if not, you will most likely regret your decision the moment you walk in the door. , The only thing more embarrassing than seeing that one woman dressed in a hot pink ball gown is BEING that woman.
Go conservative
- you can still look nice, just don't steal their moment.
Maybe a conservative little black dress or something classic in a springy color scheme.
If the kids will be in formal wear, then you should too, but keep it under control. , Men who are going as chaperones need not wear a tuxedo, and really should not.
Dad's best bet is to go with a suit and tie—something he would wear to a business meeting. , You will probably be on your feet most of the night, so choose shoes that won't have you hobbling halfway into the party.
You may also be asked to stick around after the party to help tear down, so pick a dress or skirt that will allow you to bend and move somewhat easily.
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