How to Ask a Boy Out Over Instant Messaging

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Only use this option as a last resort.

   Even webcam is better than asking over aim.
   
   If you have no confidence and really want to ask him out, then IM should be your last resort.
   
   Even over the phone is better.
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   Step 2: Make sure you have been Messaging with this person for awhile.

   It might be really awkward if you have never messaged with him and you ask him out over Instant Messenger. , If it seems like he doesn't like chatting with you, you may not want to ask him out.
   
   However, if he is giving clues that maybe he likes you, you may consider asking him out. , That way if you get a negative or weird reaction, you know not to ask him out at that time.
   
   Say something like "You're really nice" to see exactly how he responds.
   
   If you get anything like "Um" or "Uh thanks." then you might not want to ask him out.
   
   If you get a bad reaction say "brb" or "g2g" and leave him alone for a while. , then that's a good sign.
   
   Go for it.
   
   Say "wanna go out with me?" or "would you like to go out with me?"
   
   if they say yes, say "can you ask out for me?".
   
   The only thing that can backfire with this trick is that you must make sure that the person is someone that you can trust. , Tell him you have to go or say "brb" and leave him alone for a while. , Then set the when and where!
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   Step 3: Look at his reactions.

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   Step 4: Give him a hint you're about to ask him out.

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   Step 5: If he says something like "Thanks" or "You're nice too."

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   Step 6: Of course if you are a bit nervous or embarrassed to ask him out

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   Step 7: say to another friend that is online "can you do me a favour?"

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   Step 8: If he/she says no

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   Step 9: DON'T freak out

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    Step 10: it just isn't meant to be.

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    Step 11: If he/she says yes you should make sure that you are allowed to go out.

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