How to Ask Someone out Without Getting Nervous

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Think of ways to relax all that tension.

   Meditating, singing, and reading are some good ways to ease some stress for the upcoming event.
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   Step 2: Try to practice what you are going to say to him/her.

   This may help calm you down. , It just freaks you out more. ,,, This adds onto pressure, and you just might back down. , Not only will you not fall, but you'll look a little more casual. , Otherwise it will also make your speech irregular and awkward.
   
   And remember, asking someone out is like meeting a wild animal.
   
   If you act nervous they can sense it.
   
   It's a definite turn off. ,
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   Step 3: Don't think too much about asking him/her out.

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   Step 4: Staying calm while asking.

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   Step 5: As you're pulling him/her aside for the question

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   Step 6: take a few deep breaths and think only positively.

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   Step 7: Don't fear rejection.

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   Step 8: If you feel nervous

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   Step 9: lean against something.

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    Step 10: Breathe normally.

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    Step 11: If you feel your hands get sweaty

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    Step 12: put them behind your back.

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