How to Be the Change

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Decide who the person is that is need of help or change...

   Ask, do they really want the help?
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   Step 2: Who is this person?

   Why do they need help? Does their state of being affect you in any way? Why do you want to help them? Do you relate to, or understand their situation at all? , If not, please, move on to the next step.. , Don't know where to start? Begin with sharing your experiences, and your feelings about them.
   
   Make sure he/she is comfortable discussing it. , Read comforting passages, possibly from a bible. , Always be open to them sharing their feelings or events that have taken dramatic effect on their life.
   
   Comfort them, if things seem to get a little teary-eyed. , You could brighten someone's life easily by any caring gesture. , Faith and hope are the most cleansing, renewing, and strengthening traits a person can withhold.
   
   The most important thing you can remember is, no matter how far the you go down the wrong road, its never to late to turn back. , Surround yourself with positive people, and positively influential environments. , Not tomorrow, or in a year or so...
   
   How about now? It starts with you....
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   Step 3: If you know that you do not have the proper resources or experience to help this person

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   Step 4: decide right now who you trust that can guide them better than you can.. For example

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   Step 5: you could always encourage that person to attend a support group at a local ministry

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   Step 6: with your supportive company..

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   Step 7: If you can relate to that person's situation

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   Step 8: you can offer them advice.

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   Step 9: If you share religious values with that person

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    Step 10: express the things that help you stay strong or content.

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    Step 11: Be a good listener.

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    Step 12: The most simple way to be a change in someone's life

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    Step 13: is to just take the time to compliment or wave cheerfully at them.

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    Step 14: If it is you

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    Step 15: that is in need of comforting assistance

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    Step 16: my advice is to deeply get in touch with your spiritual side

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    Step 17: figure out your religious beliefs

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    Step 18: and strengthen your faith by attending church

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    Step 19: or any supportive class.

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    Step 20: Partake in activities that strengthen you

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    Step 21: not bring you down.

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    Step 22: Be the change.

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