How to Call a Guy

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Before you call

   Homework, you met him earlier, need to ask him something, etc...
   
   And find a good way to break the ice.
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   Step 2: make sure you actually have a reason to call him.

   It's hard to talk and sound sweet while screaming into the phone because he can't hear you or your friends are talking too loud. , Sometimes you can get scared and forget everything you meant to say. , Avoid awkward silences by asking him a question when you feel like an awkward silence is going to happen.
   
   Don't ask a yes/ no question, like, do you like bowling.
   
   Ask him a question that needs a long answer, such as, what's your favorite part in
   -insert his favourite film- and why?If he is not a really shy person, then let him talk. , Get him talking about this to loosen him up, and it's good to show that you're interested in him. , Ask him about his interests.
   
   Ask him things like what his favourite football team is, or what kind of music he likes. , Then use these similarities later on.
   
   If you want to ask him on a date and you know you both like horror films, ask him to the cinema to see the new scary film!! ,,
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   Step 3: Make sure you have a nice quiet environment where you get good reception on your phone.

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   Step 4: If you usually don't talk a lot or are really nervous

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   Step 5: make a list of ideas to talk about that involve his interests or what you want to talk about.

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   Step 6: Initiate the conversation.

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   Step 7: If he starts talking a lot about something

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   Step 8: he's probably really enthusiastic about it

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   Step 9: and he likes it.

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    Step 10: Laugh at his jokes

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    Step 11: and ask him questions about himself.

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    Step 12: Try to relate to him and find similarities.

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    Step 13: If he is busy

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    Step 14: ask him to call you back

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    Step 15: don't offer to call him back.

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    Step 16: When you're done talking and it was a success

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    Step 17: suggest another call or meet somewhere to keep his interest.

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