How to Deal With Someone Who Is Always Mean to You
When someone is mean to you, think of the rule, "Treat others how you want to be treated"., If it doesn't work, then just practice a small lecture, and then when you're ready, tell them., If that person continues being mean, that's when you need to...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: When someone is mean to you
You need to know everyone is different.
So just be nice to them, even if they get on your nerves. -
Step 2: think of the rule
And keep a serious, but sweet face. , This time, give them a meaner, and more serious lecture for them to understand what they've been doing. , Try to get them to understand that they don't accomplish anything if they're being mean. , If it's only a short amount of time or just a certain amount of time, that's when you just need to get serious. , Make sure you have a strict and a disgusted face while you're talking, but mostly strict and serious. , Don't be afraid.
You'll be amazed what a simple conversation can do. , And get other people to be friends with the new and nicer person! -
Step 3: "Treat others how you want to be treated".
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Step 4: If it doesn't work
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Step 5: then just practice a small lecture
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Step 6: and then when you're ready
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Step 7: tell them.
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Step 8: If that person continues being mean
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Step 9: that's when you need to do something.
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Step 10: If still nothing changed
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Step 11: that's when you try to act like their closest friend
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Step 12: and just make them tell you why they're always mean.
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Step 13: If you finally get the person to change
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Step 14: make sure it's a type of change that can be practiced forward.
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Step 15: Practice a long conversation with your friend
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Step 16: making your friend only pretend to be the mean person.
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Step 17: When you're ready
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Step 18: stand up to that person
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Step 19: and tell them what you've been wanting to say all this time.
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Step 20: If they've gotten nicer
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Step 21: and forever
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Step 22: just be friends with them so then they feel like they really changed.
Detailed Guide
You need to know everyone is different.
So just be nice to them, even if they get on your nerves.
And keep a serious, but sweet face. , This time, give them a meaner, and more serious lecture for them to understand what they've been doing. , Try to get them to understand that they don't accomplish anything if they're being mean. , If it's only a short amount of time or just a certain amount of time, that's when you just need to get serious. , Make sure you have a strict and a disgusted face while you're talking, but mostly strict and serious. , Don't be afraid.
You'll be amazed what a simple conversation can do. , And get other people to be friends with the new and nicer person!
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Brandon Reed
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