How to Get a Guy to Hate You
Be clear and upfront., Ignore him, as needed., Avoid contact., Cut off communication., Tell him you have a boyfriend., Get support from others as needed.
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Be clear and upfront.
Tell him you're not interested in him and walk off.
Don't listen to his pleading or anything he says.
Tell him you are just not the one for him and that you just don't mesh with his personality. -
Step 2: Ignore him
He will eventually catch on and he should move on.
It may seem harsh but he will keep coming back for more if you don't! , If you're at school, avoid sitting next to him or becoming his partner in projects.
If you're at work, keep interactions short, work-focused and professional.
If you are assigned to be his partner at school, go up to the teacher and ask nicely for a different one.
If your teacher asks why, explain politely that he won't stop bothering you and it annoys you.
Don't be pushy or sound stuck-up.
That will lower your chances of getting a new partner.
If the teacher refuses, have as little contact with the guy as possible.
Speak in short, clipped sentences and don't look at him.
If you are a naturally flirty person make sure you don't flirt with him at all. , If he has your phone number or any contact with you over the Internet, block him and ignore all phone calls from him.
Delete any friend requests he sends you or messages.
Totally shut him off. , If he asks who you are dating, just tell him it doesn't matter.
Tell him that you're not interested in him, and he should respect your relationship and your boundaries. , If he continues to bother you, ask your parents for advice; they will be a good judge of what steps are necessary to create clear boundaries.
If you're an adult seeking to create distance from someone who isn't respecting your boundaries despite your clear attempts to change his opinion, consider reporting it to the authorities or filing for a restraining order.
Keep in mind these are extreme moves, though, so only pursue them if you feel you are in some kind of danger. -
Step 3: as needed.
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Step 4: Avoid contact.
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Step 5: Cut off communication.
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Step 6: Tell him you have a boyfriend.
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Step 7: Get support from others as needed.
Detailed Guide
Tell him you're not interested in him and walk off.
Don't listen to his pleading or anything he says.
Tell him you are just not the one for him and that you just don't mesh with his personality.
He will eventually catch on and he should move on.
It may seem harsh but he will keep coming back for more if you don't! , If you're at school, avoid sitting next to him or becoming his partner in projects.
If you're at work, keep interactions short, work-focused and professional.
If you are assigned to be his partner at school, go up to the teacher and ask nicely for a different one.
If your teacher asks why, explain politely that he won't stop bothering you and it annoys you.
Don't be pushy or sound stuck-up.
That will lower your chances of getting a new partner.
If the teacher refuses, have as little contact with the guy as possible.
Speak in short, clipped sentences and don't look at him.
If you are a naturally flirty person make sure you don't flirt with him at all. , If he has your phone number or any contact with you over the Internet, block him and ignore all phone calls from him.
Delete any friend requests he sends you or messages.
Totally shut him off. , If he asks who you are dating, just tell him it doesn't matter.
Tell him that you're not interested in him, and he should respect your relationship and your boundaries. , If he continues to bother you, ask your parents for advice; they will be a good judge of what steps are necessary to create clear boundaries.
If you're an adult seeking to create distance from someone who isn't respecting your boundaries despite your clear attempts to change his opinion, consider reporting it to the authorities or filing for a restraining order.
Keep in mind these are extreme moves, though, so only pursue them if you feel you are in some kind of danger.
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