How to Get a Hot Guy to Dance with You
At the beginning of the dance, don't hang around him to much.,You don't have to ask him to dance with you for the first slow song, because it's OK to wait until later, , Don't just stand there and not dance with a guy because you need to know what...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: At the beginning of the dance
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Step 2: don't hang around him to much.
,,, Note that at some schools (especially later at college) some DJs will not play slow songs at all (especially if too few people request them).
Try requesting the DJ to do so, and encourage your friends to do likewise. , Panic works in romantic comedies, but normally it's safer to keep your head cool. , Body contact quite often does the trick. , A lot of guys will appreciate if you start the flirting, so don't hang around hopelessly waiting for something that won't happen on it's own. , You have to save some topics for later conversations, no? Just make yourself interesting, then take off. , -
Step 3: You don't have to ask him to dance with you for the first slow song
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Step 4: because it's OK to wait until later
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Step 5: Don't just stand there and not dance with a guy because you need to know what it feels like
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Step 6: so you'll be ready when you ask your crush.
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Step 7: Towards the middle of the dance
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Step 8: start to think about your approach (if you haven't already)
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Step 9: and how you're going to ask him.
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Step 10: Wait until the last slow song of the night to ask him because that's really romantic (although
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Step 11: you should be prepared that he might be booked - after all
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Step 12: you've placed all hope on one single dance).
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Step 13: Approach your crush slowly
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Step 14: and be calm.
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Step 15: After you've danced with him
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Step 16: (last dance preferred) when you are leaving wave to him
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Step 17: or tap him on the shoulder and say "Good-bye
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Step 18: " "I had fun tonight
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Step 19: " or something like that.
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Step 20: If you're a girl
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Step 21: and worry about others saying that it is the guy's job to pursue you
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Step 22: then face it - that's so far from the truth one wouldn't be able to spot it with an astronomical telescope.
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Step 23: If you want to start a friendship with him
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Step 24: start talking to him gradually
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Step 25: and don't say much.
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Step 26: As your talk progresses
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Step 27: add on a little more each time.
Detailed Guide
Wait until later.
,,, Note that at some schools (especially later at college) some DJs will not play slow songs at all (especially if too few people request them).
Try requesting the DJ to do so, and encourage your friends to do likewise. , Panic works in romantic comedies, but normally it's safer to keep your head cool. , Body contact quite often does the trick. , A lot of guys will appreciate if you start the flirting, so don't hang around hopelessly waiting for something that won't happen on it's own. , You have to save some topics for later conversations, no? Just make yourself interesting, then take off. ,
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