How to Get Exactly What You Want with the Guy You Like

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Make sure that the guy you like is single.

   If he is in a relationship or dating somebody, don't be afraid to still talk to him.
   
   Flirt with him subtly; if you do it properly then he will subconsciously flirt with you back.
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   Step 2: Flirting is such an obvious factor

   Hold eye contact with him, smile, touch his arm while laughing, be assertive.
   
   Don't be afraid to make the first move. , It shows you're interested and you want to get to know him.
   
   Don't be too pushy, but slip in the occasional 'what is your opinion on that?' 'Do you like this/that?' It makes a difference. , It will show you're confident and keen. ,,,,, If the date is awkward and you decide you don't like him, tell him you should just remain as friends.
   
   If you still like him, but you're convinced he doesn't like you back then play it down
   - don't communicate as much for about a week and then start flirting again.
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   Step 3: but it's an important one.

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   Step 4: Once you've started talking to him

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   Step 5: ask questions.

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   Step 6: Once you've started talking

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   Step 7: try calling him - but not too often.

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   Step 8: Once you're calling

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   Step 9: flirt more

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    Step 10: which will turn into a good

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    Step 11: flirty friendship.

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    Step 12: if he hasn't asked you on a date; you will have to

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    Step 13: if you really want him.

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    Step 14: When you're on the date

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    Step 15: be yourself and don't behave too couple-like yet.

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    Step 16: Lean in for a kiss somewhere in the second half of the date

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    Step 17: but only if it's right.

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    Step 18: If all goes well

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    Step 19: go on another date.

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