How to Make a Man Believe In You
Be positive., Start with being someone who he can trust and rely on., Create a natural environment by being you and no one else., Show him your confidence and comfort., Focus on facts., Be concrete., Be true to yourself and the truth will always...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Be positive.
Positive thinking, leads to positive speaking, leads to positive actions! -
Step 2: Start with being someone who he can trust and rely on.
Don't expect him to trust you with him when there is no need/reason to. , Make him feel like he is the most important person to you at the moment! , Be likable
- it actually helps build credibility and makes anyone warm to what you're saying.
Say a funny joke and get him on your side before you start your story.
It starts with how confident you are with you knowledge and he will feel the confidence! , Men are driven by facts, while women are driven by feels: if you need a man to believe you, you have to create evidence of your statements! Research the subject matter you want him to believe.
Come up with logical knowledge that will spark a conversation he had no clue of! Learn to empathize with his facts but always counter act your viewpoint in a subtle way. , Give him an example of who, what, when, why, and how.
Remember, the why is the most important out of the all the other facts! , You can not rely on others to help you be the best you, you have to do it yourself! , Be reasonable with him and if it doesn't work out, it was not meant to be! Trust that if he doesn't believe you, someone else will. , Think in his shoes before you think in yours, to help him see where you're coming from.
Know that you a bringing something new in his scope of work so be patient to 'get it' ! -
Step 3: Create a natural environment by being you and no one else.
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Step 4: Show him your confidence and comfort.
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Step 5: Focus on facts.
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Step 6: Be concrete.
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Step 7: Be true to yourself and the truth will always outshine the false.
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Step 8: Don't force an opinion.
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Step 9: Be on his side
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Step 10: and be patient with him.
Detailed Guide
Positive thinking, leads to positive speaking, leads to positive actions!
Don't expect him to trust you with him when there is no need/reason to. , Make him feel like he is the most important person to you at the moment! , Be likable
- it actually helps build credibility and makes anyone warm to what you're saying.
Say a funny joke and get him on your side before you start your story.
It starts with how confident you are with you knowledge and he will feel the confidence! , Men are driven by facts, while women are driven by feels: if you need a man to believe you, you have to create evidence of your statements! Research the subject matter you want him to believe.
Come up with logical knowledge that will spark a conversation he had no clue of! Learn to empathize with his facts but always counter act your viewpoint in a subtle way. , Give him an example of who, what, when, why, and how.
Remember, the why is the most important out of the all the other facts! , You can not rely on others to help you be the best you, you have to do it yourself! , Be reasonable with him and if it doesn't work out, it was not meant to be! Trust that if he doesn't believe you, someone else will. , Think in his shoes before you think in yours, to help him see where you're coming from.
Know that you a bringing something new in his scope of work so be patient to 'get it' !
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