How to Make Out with a Guy

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Apply lip balm every night.

   If you have a crush on a guy, it’s better to be prepared.
   
   Use natural, moisturizing lip balm at night and every morning.
   
   Aim to have moisturized lips all the time, instead of putting on lip balm just before you kiss.
   
   It can create a strange taste and sticky texture on your lips.
   
   If your lips are regularly chapped, use a sugar and olive oil lip scrub 3 times per week.
   
   Rinse and apply petroleum jelly once you have exfoliated.
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   Step 2: Brush your teeth before you go out.

   If you are just beginning a relationship, increase the number of times you brush to 3 per day, instead of
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   If you have a spontaneous kiss, you will want to feel confident in your breath.
   
   Kissing evolved as a way to gauge your partner’s health.
   
   Make sure you are sending the right biological signals. , Even if you just met the person you want to kiss a few hours ago, flirty will make your make out session even better.
   
   Say encouraging things if you want him to think of you as a potential love interest.
   
   Try “It sounds like we have a lot in common” or “we have similar tastes.” Say “Let’s go somewhere less noisy/more private,” if you want to get him alone. , Sip on a drink through a straw, so you have to pucker your lips slightly.
   
   Eat something sweet, like a strawberry or piece of chocolate and let it linger on your mouth. , Touching his arm and gently brushing your lips on his ear while you whisper can turn him on.
   
   Remember that kissing is more fun when you build anticipation. , If you at him and he’s not making a move, encourage him by moving your body closer and pressing your lips to his cheek for a few seconds.
   
   Try a phrase like “You’re sweet” to encourage him further. , Keep your body a few inches away and tilt your head.
   
   Use a triangle look, gazing at 1 eye, then the other and then his lips. , Once tension is built, lean in and press your closed lips against his.
   
   Part your lips only slightly before you kiss him, and close them over part of his bottom lip, to create some pressure. , Touch his chest or his back to bring him closer. ,, Open your mouth just a little more with each kiss.
   
   You just want a hint of moisture, not a slobber. , You can even touch your tongue to his lip instead of his tongue once. , Touch tongues lightly.
   
   If your guy wants to get too wet with the kiss too soon, pull away slightly while leaving your mouths open.
   
   Give him a look in the eye while you pause.
   
   This tells him you want to take it slow. ,, Avoid turning it around like a blender.
   
   Keep your kiss as spontaneous as possible. , Gauge whether he likes this by how he reacts.
   
   If so, you can incorporate gentle nipping throughout the kissing session. , If you want to keep the session contained to just kissing, you should move your hands over his chest, back, waist, neck and hair.
   
   Some men don’t like it when women grab their hair and others love it.
   
   Pay attention so that you can improve the kiss. , If he has you pinned against a wall or bed, pin him in turn.
   
   You can show some playful dominance with this gesture.
   
   If you are standing, try sitting or laying down. , If you have been kissing for 5 minutes, pull away and pay attention to these sensitive areas before starting another kiss. , Take a moment to decide if this will be only a make out session or something more.
   
   Increase the anticipation by leaving him wanting more.
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   Step 3: Talk and get to know him.

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   Step 4: Drink or eat something that draws attention to your lips.

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   Step 5: Whisper in his ear.

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   Step 6: Kiss him on the cheek.

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   Step 7: Look him in the eyes.

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   Step 8: Make a move.

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   Step 9: Continue with several closed mouth kisses

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    Step 10: held for 2 to 5 seconds.

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    Step 11: Tease him by opening your mouth very slightly

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    Step 12: withholding any tongue for the first 20 to 30 seconds.

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    Step 13: Move slowly.

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    Step 14: Start with a very tiny taste.

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    Step 15: Increase how far your mouth is open.

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    Step 16: Make the kiss more intense

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    Step 17: opening your mouth and using more tongue for the next few minutes.

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    Step 18: Try using a circular motion with your tongue

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    Step 19: first small

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    Step 20: then larger.

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    Step 21: Consider pulling back during the kiss and gently biting his lower lip.

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    Step 22: Move your hands over his body while you kiss.

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    Step 23: Change positions.

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    Step 24: Kiss his neck

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    Step 25: ears and jaw line.

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    Step 26: Pull away and look him in the eyes.

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