How to Make Your Online Lover a Reality
Open up., Be interesting, not dull., Talk often., Write poems, play songs, play games, tell stories, share your days and nights., Be patient., Make arrangements to visit as much as you need to feel comfortable. , Once you both decide you are going...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Open up.
Once you have found Mr/Ms Right, be completely honest about who you are and what you are looking for.
This is not the time to play.
Many people use the internet to pretend.
However, when you are dating remember that you are playing with people's hearts and minds.
This is not the time to play unless you tell everyone you are playing. -
Step 2: Be interesting
Be very creative with your words, thoughts and actions.
Remember you may be at a distance and you have the computer separating you, so you need to come on a little stronger than you would face to face. , You can be casual in your conversation.
Be alive, interested and energetic in your conversation.
Avoid expressing loneliness and despair. , This does not have to take up your day, but just 5-10 minutes here and there throughout the day can really make a difference. , You will still need to see if this is the one all the way to the bank. ,, This attitude will keep you both from trying to make everything perfect and allow you both not to feel trapped. , Once in the presence of your lover reality will set in.
This is a difficult adjustment, because the distance allows for a certain amount of fantasy.
Some of that will leave, but if it is a good connection and if you are mature it will not be enough to make you change your mind. , You don't want to move close to the love of your life if you are going to be kept a secret. -
Step 3: not dull.
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Step 4: Talk often.
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Step 5: Write poems
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Step 6: play songs
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Step 7: play games
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Step 8: tell stories
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Step 9: share your days and nights.
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Step 10: Be patient.
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Step 11: Make arrangements to visit as much as you need to feel comfortable.
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Step 12: Once you both decide you are going to be together you need to make sure you remain open to the fact that once you close the distance that this still may not work out.
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Step 13: Be prepared for the ups and downs.
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Step 14: Arrange a meeting with family and friends as soon as possible.
Detailed Guide
Once you have found Mr/Ms Right, be completely honest about who you are and what you are looking for.
This is not the time to play.
Many people use the internet to pretend.
However, when you are dating remember that you are playing with people's hearts and minds.
This is not the time to play unless you tell everyone you are playing.
Be very creative with your words, thoughts and actions.
Remember you may be at a distance and you have the computer separating you, so you need to come on a little stronger than you would face to face. , You can be casual in your conversation.
Be alive, interested and energetic in your conversation.
Avoid expressing loneliness and despair. , This does not have to take up your day, but just 5-10 minutes here and there throughout the day can really make a difference. , You will still need to see if this is the one all the way to the bank. ,, This attitude will keep you both from trying to make everything perfect and allow you both not to feel trapped. , Once in the presence of your lover reality will set in.
This is a difficult adjustment, because the distance allows for a certain amount of fantasy.
Some of that will leave, but if it is a good connection and if you are mature it will not be enough to make you change your mind. , You don't want to move close to the love of your life if you are going to be kept a secret.
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