How to Understand What a Girl Thinks

If she's an artist, ask to see her art., Make the first move so you can understand what a girl thinks., Don't be intimidated., Wear nice clothes., Don't be discouraged., Don't talk about your ex-girlfriends, problems at home (unless she asks), and...

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Step-by-Step Guide

  1. Step 1: If she's an artist

    She may or may not show you due to shyness or fear of being critiqued.

    If she's good at math, ask her how she gets it so well.

    Don't be too obvious if you don't know whether she likes you or not.

    It could result in sounding clichéd.
  2. Step 2: ask to see her art.

    If a girl likes you and doesn't know if you like her back, she is unlikely to do anything about it.

    It will give them more confidence, and they will be more open. , She's probably intimidated too, so just break the ice and start to have a fun conversation as a kick off.

    However, cockiness and extreme boldness are unsavory. , if you do not dress likely, you cannot begin to know what a girl thinks, apparently.

    Take a look at your style, you shouldn't change your style for anyone else.

    Just remember that clothes make the person, and girls love guys with their own styles. , If one girl doesn't think the way you thought she did, then move on! There are more fish in the sea! ,, Most girls love to find a guy who is sensitive enough to do those small little things. (Pull out her chair, let her go in front of you in lines, offer her your chair if there are none left.

    Try not to call her ma'am, though.

    Ma'am is for older women).

    That's common sense.

    This also means avoiding making comments that would be sexist, or doing/saying something that treats women as objects. , Most important, respect the girl's parents as if they were you own, and even better! They make the final decision.

    If you both like something that the parents respect, good.

    If you both have a rebellious trait in common, that creates a bad image for parents.

    Just don't mention it.

    Be a charmer, irresistible.

    You worked for the girl, her parents should be easy. , Girls love attention.
  3. Step 3: Make the first move so you can understand what a girl thinks.

  4. Step 4: Don't be intimidated.

  5. Step 5: Wear nice clothes.

  6. Step 6: Don't be discouraged.

  7. Step 7: Don't talk about your ex-girlfriends

  8. Step 8: problems at home (unless she asks)

  9. Step 9: and don't make crude or sexual jokes/comments unless she likes that kind of humor (major turn off).

  10. Step 10: Treat a girl with manners and respect to find out what she think.

  11. Step 11: Respect the girl's parents.

  12. Step 12: At all times

  13. Step 13: show that you think about her.

Detailed Guide

She may or may not show you due to shyness or fear of being critiqued.

If she's good at math, ask her how she gets it so well.

Don't be too obvious if you don't know whether she likes you or not.

It could result in sounding clichéd.

If a girl likes you and doesn't know if you like her back, she is unlikely to do anything about it.

It will give them more confidence, and they will be more open. , She's probably intimidated too, so just break the ice and start to have a fun conversation as a kick off.

However, cockiness and extreme boldness are unsavory. , if you do not dress likely, you cannot begin to know what a girl thinks, apparently.

Take a look at your style, you shouldn't change your style for anyone else.

Just remember that clothes make the person, and girls love guys with their own styles. , If one girl doesn't think the way you thought she did, then move on! There are more fish in the sea! ,, Most girls love to find a guy who is sensitive enough to do those small little things. (Pull out her chair, let her go in front of you in lines, offer her your chair if there are none left.

Try not to call her ma'am, though.

Ma'am is for older women).

That's common sense.

This also means avoiding making comments that would be sexist, or doing/saying something that treats women as objects. , Most important, respect the girl's parents as if they were you own, and even better! They make the final decision.

If you both like something that the parents respect, good.

If you both have a rebellious trait in common, that creates a bad image for parents.

Just don't mention it.

Be a charmer, irresistible.

You worked for the girl, her parents should be easy. , Girls love attention.

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