How to Win Him Over and Get Him to Like You
Remember that appearance is not everything, but ALL ATTRACTION IS PHYSICAL ON SOME LEVEL!, Find an excuse to talk to him- even if its going out of your way and puts you at risk of looking a little foolish- truth is guys are going to acknowledge your...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Remember that appearance is not everything
It's chemistry- basic 101 of attraction, even when you find yourself seeing a guy more attractive as a result of his personality- the truth is is that there are physical qualities that your brain admires of his- and likewise x20 for him- because guys depend more on attraction and chemistry to determine his interest in you.
Luckily chemistry breaks down into two parts- the physical magnetism and the flow energy, "that spark"
between two people- AND I HAVE STEPS AND TIPS TO HELP YOU WITH BOTH!!! -
Step 2: but ALL ATTRACTION IS PHYSICAL ON SOME LEVEL!
CUTE is definitely something you want to come across as- guys instinctively want to think of girls as smaller... cuter... in need of protection... hold you in my arms- soft, gentle appeal of females. (That's why some girls naturally try to raise their vocals and use a baby voice- it is an instinctive tactic.
Although truth is its more attractive when girls use their actual voice so AVOID this.
A raspy voice is actually sexier and guys generally are always more apt to unique charm) , Conversation is the best way to grab hold of a guys attention and allow mutual energy flow.
But if just starting up a long get to know you conversation is too difficult- which often it can be- Sometimes just talking to him can be hard enough- bump into him.
Yep, the ONLY way for chemistry and vibes to truly flow is to be in a room with him.
So, find out where he's going to be- sounds stalkerish, but you are not the only girl doing this- I PROMISE!!! Once you know where he'll be- GO THERE! If simply being there and running into him isn't enough to get his attention and start up a conversation- literally bump into him- walk past and gently brush him or back up into him- GENTLY...
GENTLY! Seriously, spilling his drink or stepping on him or making him bump into someone else is gonna make him think "watch where you're going!" or "what a linebacker!"- just a gentle brush by, where you can flash a smile and say "ooo eh sorry (laugh a little then if you know him: "hey, ________.
How's it going" if you don't know him like that, just "Hey (hold a staring smile and break it) sorry I thought I knew you from somewhere for a sec).
Either way brush his arm for sec.
DO NOT BREAK YOUR TOOTHY SMILE. , Love and connection and chemistry should be seamless.
Attraction- especially with guys is decided quickly and instinctively! -
Step 3: Find an excuse to talk to him- even if its going out of your way and puts you at risk of looking a little foolish- truth is guys are going to acknowledge your genuine effort and find it cute.
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Step 4: Grab his Attention & make it effortless.
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Step 5: Keep it up and build excuses to talk to him and get his attention- if after two encounters- you're not picking up vibes that he's interested- surrender
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Step 6: because this should be quick and seamless.
Detailed Guide
It's chemistry- basic 101 of attraction, even when you find yourself seeing a guy more attractive as a result of his personality- the truth is is that there are physical qualities that your brain admires of his- and likewise x20 for him- because guys depend more on attraction and chemistry to determine his interest in you.
Luckily chemistry breaks down into two parts- the physical magnetism and the flow energy, "that spark"
between two people- AND I HAVE STEPS AND TIPS TO HELP YOU WITH BOTH!!!
CUTE is definitely something you want to come across as- guys instinctively want to think of girls as smaller... cuter... in need of protection... hold you in my arms- soft, gentle appeal of females. (That's why some girls naturally try to raise their vocals and use a baby voice- it is an instinctive tactic.
Although truth is its more attractive when girls use their actual voice so AVOID this.
A raspy voice is actually sexier and guys generally are always more apt to unique charm) , Conversation is the best way to grab hold of a guys attention and allow mutual energy flow.
But if just starting up a long get to know you conversation is too difficult- which often it can be- Sometimes just talking to him can be hard enough- bump into him.
Yep, the ONLY way for chemistry and vibes to truly flow is to be in a room with him.
So, find out where he's going to be- sounds stalkerish, but you are not the only girl doing this- I PROMISE!!! Once you know where he'll be- GO THERE! If simply being there and running into him isn't enough to get his attention and start up a conversation- literally bump into him- walk past and gently brush him or back up into him- GENTLY...
GENTLY! Seriously, spilling his drink or stepping on him or making him bump into someone else is gonna make him think "watch where you're going!" or "what a linebacker!"- just a gentle brush by, where you can flash a smile and say "ooo eh sorry (laugh a little then if you know him: "hey, ________.
How's it going" if you don't know him like that, just "Hey (hold a staring smile and break it) sorry I thought I knew you from somewhere for a sec).
Either way brush his arm for sec.
DO NOT BREAK YOUR TOOTHY SMILE. , Love and connection and chemistry should be seamless.
Attraction- especially with guys is decided quickly and instinctively!
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