How to Convince Your Parents of Your Intercaste Love
Find the correct moment to talk to your parents., Try to explain to your parents why you love your partner., Search for marriages in your family which are intercaste or unconventional and were successful., Gain support., Ask them to meet your future...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Find the correct moment to talk to your parents.
Avoid situations when they are tense or irritated. -
Step 2: Try to explain to your parents why you love your partner.
List out the reasons why you love them and what made you fall for them in the first place, even though it may sound like a business proposal., Use them as examples to prove your point. , Get some people (like your married cousins) to support you when talking about your marriage. , You should also ask them to not to be biased. ,, No marriage is without compromise. , This would create more hatred towards your relationship. , However, try not to cause a rift between them on this topic since they will attribute that to you and your partner. , Try doing it with dignity.
And do not get into fights or yelling matches with them on this topic, since it will make you seem immature and unworthy of their consideration of your love. , If they don't respect your decision, don't let them drag you down! -
Step 3: Search for marriages in your family which are intercaste or unconventional and were successful.
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Step 4: Gain support.
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Step 5: Ask them to meet your future partner and then decide without any pressure.
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Step 6: Try to keep your parents away from relatives or people who are against intercaste marriage.
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Step 7: Tell them that marriage is all about a little bit of compromise and sacrifice
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Step 8: and that the two of you don't have any problem in doing the same.
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Step 9: Never pressure them by saying that you will move out with your partner.
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Step 10: Try to get at least one of your parents on your side.
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Step 11: Do not beg or plead.
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Step 12: If nothing else works
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Step 13: tell them firmly and politely that this is the person you have chosen for yourself and they should try to accept it because at the end of the day it is your life that is at stake.
Detailed Guide
Avoid situations when they are tense or irritated.
List out the reasons why you love them and what made you fall for them in the first place, even though it may sound like a business proposal., Use them as examples to prove your point. , Get some people (like your married cousins) to support you when talking about your marriage. , You should also ask them to not to be biased. ,, No marriage is without compromise. , This would create more hatred towards your relationship. , However, try not to cause a rift between them on this topic since they will attribute that to you and your partner. , Try doing it with dignity.
And do not get into fights or yelling matches with them on this topic, since it will make you seem immature and unworthy of their consideration of your love. , If they don't respect your decision, don't let them drag you down!
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