How to Have an Exclusive, Long Term, Mature, Serious (and Healthy) Relationship

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Time Together: You have to see one another face-to-face frequently to make it work

   Even if you have to mark it down on calendars, do it! Call each other often.
   
   Basically, if you're a girlfriend (or a boyfriend), anything you do together is a date.
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   Step 2: you need to be carving out times for dates for you two as a couple.

   You have to be capable of being a healthy and happy individual without your boyfriend (or girlfriend) around all the time.
   
   You need to balance the time you have
   - between your friends, family, your hobbies/interests, school, your job/career, and time by yourself.
   
   Have your own life apart from your relationship. , About the serious, important, and major issues, and also about the joking, non-serious, unimportant, little stuff too.
   
   Talk about anything you want
   - how your day went, viewpoints, opinions, thoughts, wants, needs, desires, ambitions, goals, your past, how you want your future to be, hopes, dreams, insecurities, fears, wishes, or what's going on in your life. , You need to trust each other enough to not think that they will cheat, or do anything else to hurt you emotionally, physically, or otherwise. , Uplift the other person in good ways.
   
   Be there (physically, emotionally, or any way you can) for each other during the happy times and the not so happy times.
   
   It will make all the difference! , Lies (even if the other person never finds out the truth) will just weaken your bond / relationship and eventually make you grow apart.
   
   Especially if you wait a long time to tell him / her.
   
   So the best thing to do is to always be honest with the other person and tell them right away. , Letting someone walk all over you, always doing what they want, and having no boundaries makes you resentful over time and far less attractive. , You need to respect and accept each other's body, feelings, wants, needs, and everything else that comes along with being with the other person.
   
   Respect is also no abuse, mistreatment, damage, or misuse in any way, shape, or form (physically, emotionally, sexually, or verbally).
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   Step 3: Time Apart: You have to be independent

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   Step 4: too - You need to spend time away from one another.

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   Step 5: Communication: You have to communicate verbally (talk) with one another.

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   Step 6: Trust: You have to trust each other for your relationship to work and not be torn apart by jealousy.

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   Step 7: Support: You must support each other through thick and thin

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   Step 8: no matter what.

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   Step 9: Honesty: You must be honest and truthful with each other on everything and about anything and everything that may come up.

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    Step 10: Self-Respect: Only you control how someone else treats you.

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    Step 11: Respect: Respect is a big one.

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