How to Keep Cool During a Partner's Midlife Crisis

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: During dinner or whenever you two are alone

   Do not open about the problem yet or he/she will get more stressed out.
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   Step 2: talk to her/him and ask how is things going.

   Then you will see he/she will start opening up to you. , If he/she is starts yelling just because of stress, calm her/him down. ,, Watch a movie, have a date, just to relax him/her. , Do that twice a week, if he/she ask you to stop coming, follow what he/she says just act relax so she will relax.
   
   People tend to do what they see other people are doing. , Spend more time together.
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   Step 3: Then start opening about the problem but don't talk about negatives things start of being positive about it.

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   Step 4: Talk about it calmly

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   Step 5: no yelling or screaming.

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   Step 6: Open up the problems..don't ask to much questions or she/he will get frustrated with you.

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   Step 7: After the conversation is over

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   Step 8: relax her/him.

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   Step 9: If the problem comes from work

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    Step 10: visit there and just help out with the problem..not like get in the business just make him/her feel better.

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    Step 11: After the problem is starting to fade away..take him/her out more.

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