How to Survive College, Work, and a Boyfriend
Keep in mind that although many people have a thousand expectations for you, ultimately you are the one who makes the decisions., Prioritize., Set aside a time to do your coursework and stick to it., Look at your syllabus., If you find that you're...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Keep in mind that although many people have a thousand expectations for you
Your happiness comes first; you shouldn't be doing something only because everyone else thinks it would be best for you.
Only you can decide what's best for you. -
Step 2: ultimately you are the one who makes the decisions.
Find out what's the most important, but don't deem the others insignificant.. just realize what (in an extreme case) you would put before another. , If your job hours change, then your schedule might be a little more loose; but you should try to keep it as close as possible.
Don't schedule anything else into this time. , Use it to plan ahead.
Big assignments are easier if you work on them a little at a time, as opposed to being "surprised" into cramming all the work into the night before class. , Studying or other activities may be important, but not more important than getting enough uninterrupted sleep.
If you just have to go without, have a cup of coffee and exercise for about ten of twenty minutes before you go to work (or class).
That should wake you up enough to get through the day. , It's easier to work if you're thinking about the things you like, rather than the things you hate. , It's easy to start thinking about that important essay, or what movie you and your boyfriend are going to catch later that night, but it can affect your performance! It's hard to work when your mind is elsewhere; it also tends to make the day go by slower. , .
It's not sucking up, it's making an effort to get to know him/her as a person.
Trust me, they'll appreciate your effort and it will be easier getting that weekend off that you really need. , Once you've gotten everything done and you have time to yourself, use it! Live in the moment and enjoy! -
Step 3: Prioritize.
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Step 4: Set aside a time to do your coursework and stick to it.
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Step 5: Look at your syllabus.
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Step 6: If you find that you're dragging at work (or school)
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Step 7: you might not be getting enough sleep.
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Step 8: Find something you like about your job.
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Step 9: Try not to let your mind wander too much while at work.
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Step 10: Talk to your boss.
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Step 11: Have fun when you can.
Detailed Guide
Your happiness comes first; you shouldn't be doing something only because everyone else thinks it would be best for you.
Only you can decide what's best for you.
Find out what's the most important, but don't deem the others insignificant.. just realize what (in an extreme case) you would put before another. , If your job hours change, then your schedule might be a little more loose; but you should try to keep it as close as possible.
Don't schedule anything else into this time. , Use it to plan ahead.
Big assignments are easier if you work on them a little at a time, as opposed to being "surprised" into cramming all the work into the night before class. , Studying or other activities may be important, but not more important than getting enough uninterrupted sleep.
If you just have to go without, have a cup of coffee and exercise for about ten of twenty minutes before you go to work (or class).
That should wake you up enough to get through the day. , It's easier to work if you're thinking about the things you like, rather than the things you hate. , It's easy to start thinking about that important essay, or what movie you and your boyfriend are going to catch later that night, but it can affect your performance! It's hard to work when your mind is elsewhere; it also tends to make the day go by slower. , .
It's not sucking up, it's making an effort to get to know him/her as a person.
Trust me, they'll appreciate your effort and it will be easier getting that weekend off that you really need. , Once you've gotten everything done and you have time to yourself, use it! Live in the moment and enjoy!
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