How to Fit in at America if You're a Foreigner

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Most Americans have not traveled extensively outside of North America and are unfamiliar with the more detailed existences of foreigners.

   It is not uncommon to be stereo-typed by Americans based on what they've seen on television or heard through the grape-vine about a particular nationality.
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   Step 2: Don't say "I'm from ."

   This, for some reason, has a negative feel.
   
   Say you're either Italian, French, or whatever. , You don't have to smile if you don't want to, but you'll be asked is there something wrong. , It's not practical to walk or ride public transportation in many locales. ,,, This makes working with other people harder.
   
   Try to be patient and relax. , is a common introductory phrase in American English. "Excellent" or "Very well" are good responses in general
   - unless person is a close friend, answering in a negative way may stifle your conversation. ,, We're rather mischievous. , This is really helpful in making friends.
   
   One person may have ten acquaintances. , Try to have a neat appearance.
   
   This will make you more confident, which, in turn, attracts people. , We use a lot more idioms than even we realize.
   
   Awesome means not "awe some" but something that looks cool.
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   Step 3: Be wary of not smiling.

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   Step 4: Cars are the primary transportation means in America.

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   Step 5: Portion sizes in the United States tend to be generous in size

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   Step 6: loaded with calories and fat

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   Step 7: so be cognizant of any dietary restrictions you may be breaking when eating in the States.

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   Step 8: Americans are sensitive

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   Step 9: so be wary of declaring your opinions.

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    Step 10: America is very fast-paced and rushed.

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    Step 11: "How are you?"

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    Step 12: Gear your speech patterns to your audience - reserve your knowledge of third-order polynomials for mathematics professionals

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    Step 13: and be prepared to engage your sports expertise when at a bar.

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    Step 14: Think carefully about any dares you want to do.

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    Step 15: Center conversations on the other person.

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    Step 16: Try to be happy and nice.

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    Step 17: Lastly

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    Step 18: know American idioms.

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