How to Focus On School and Not the Boys

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Set long term goals for the school year.

   If you know what you need to get done in the long run than make sure you remind yourself of those and having a concrete knowledge of what they are can help motivate you.
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   Step 2: Set short term goals.

   These can be monthly, weekly, or daily.
   
   If you know what you want to accomplish academically and extra curricular-wise you will have more motive to reach those goals.
   
   It might help to write a "to do" list so you can check off homework or other goals as you accomplish them. ,,,, Get involved in your school or outside with volunteer work or community service.
   
   Make sure you find something you enjoy because not only can it be fun but it can look good for colleges and keep your mind off any certain boys. , There is a time to work and a time to play.
   
   If you keep them separate everything will work out better. ,,,
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   Step 3: Think about your top priorities and know what's important at this time in your life.

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   Step 4: Think about how doing well in school will help you further on in finding a college and just living life and how life will be so much easier if you work hard now and finish what you have to finish.

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   Step 5: Stay organized.

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   Step 6: Keep yourself busy.

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   Step 7: Set aside time to be social and hang out with the guys.

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   Step 8: You might have to try self restrictions by telling yourself that you are not going talk to the guys until you get your work done or unless you are on top of things in school.

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   Step 9: Remember: A girl who is able to keep on top of her work and manage her time well generally looks good to a guy and can be impressive.

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    Step 10: Focus on the tasks at hand think about how other people like your family would want you to do well in school.

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