How to Be a Mature Young Adult

Choose a living arrangement., Learn to cook., Keep your space clean.

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Step-by-Step Guide

  1. Step 1: Choose a living arrangement.

    When you move away from home, you have a lot of options for how and where you would like to live.

    Dormitories are a great option for college students and are often required for freshman at many institutions.

    Dorms let you ease into living away from home without saddling you with tasks like rent and maintenance.

    They're also excellent places to make friends and learn how to live in a community of your own.

    Single apartments require the most responsibility right off the bat but they also allow you to have a space that it is entirely your own.

    Studio apartments, which are small and inexpensive units with one main room and one bathroom, are good first apartments, as are one-bedroom units.

    To avoid loneliness, you'll have to seek social interactions away from home if you choose to live alone, which can be more challenging.

    If you don't wish to live alone, sharing an apartment or house with roommates is your best option.

    This not only reduces your living costs, it also gives you a good balance between community and privacy.
  2. Step 2: Learn to cook.

    Cooking for yourself is much more cost-effective and healthy than relying on takeout and store-bought meals.

    It's also a great social skill and will be essential if you ever choose to have a family of your own.

    There are a lot of different ways to learn to cook and you can use multiple methods at the same time.

    Look for:
    Cook books.

    Online instructional videos.

    Online recipes and instructional articles.

    Local cooking classes. , For the sake of health and social presentation, it's very important to have a clean home and an equally clean self.

    Wash dishes daily.

    Allowing dirty dishes to pile up just creates more work for yourself down the line and increases the amount of mold and insects in your home.

    Do laundry every one to two weeks.

    If you don't have laundry facilities in your home, look for a local coin-operated laundromat.

    Designate one day a week as cleaning day.

    This is a day when you should thoroughly clean your home, including washing floors and windows, cleaning your bathroom, dusting your furniture, and any other tasks specific to your home.

    If you have roommates, divide up cleaning chores and rotate them equally.

    Set clear rewards and penalties for success and failure to fulfill these responsibilities.
  3. Step 3: Keep your space clean.

Detailed Guide

When you move away from home, you have a lot of options for how and where you would like to live.

Dormitories are a great option for college students and are often required for freshman at many institutions.

Dorms let you ease into living away from home without saddling you with tasks like rent and maintenance.

They're also excellent places to make friends and learn how to live in a community of your own.

Single apartments require the most responsibility right off the bat but they also allow you to have a space that it is entirely your own.

Studio apartments, which are small and inexpensive units with one main room and one bathroom, are good first apartments, as are one-bedroom units.

To avoid loneliness, you'll have to seek social interactions away from home if you choose to live alone, which can be more challenging.

If you don't wish to live alone, sharing an apartment or house with roommates is your best option.

This not only reduces your living costs, it also gives you a good balance between community and privacy.

Cooking for yourself is much more cost-effective and healthy than relying on takeout and store-bought meals.

It's also a great social skill and will be essential if you ever choose to have a family of your own.

There are a lot of different ways to learn to cook and you can use multiple methods at the same time.

Look for:
Cook books.

Online instructional videos.

Online recipes and instructional articles.

Local cooking classes. , For the sake of health and social presentation, it's very important to have a clean home and an equally clean self.

Wash dishes daily.

Allowing dirty dishes to pile up just creates more work for yourself down the line and increases the amount of mold and insects in your home.

Do laundry every one to two weeks.

If you don't have laundry facilities in your home, look for a local coin-operated laundromat.

Designate one day a week as cleaning day.

This is a day when you should thoroughly clean your home, including washing floors and windows, cleaning your bathroom, dusting your furniture, and any other tasks specific to your home.

If you have roommates, divide up cleaning chores and rotate them equally.

Set clear rewards and penalties for success and failure to fulfill these responsibilities.

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