How to Cope With the Loss of a Loved One to a Violent Death

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Know that

   Either way, you will grieve.
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   Step 2: no matter what

   There will be days when feeding yourself will be too difficult to even contemplate. , Don't expect to be 'over' it in a few months. , You can look in your phone book or check it out on the Internet. , If your loved one died due to a criminal act, keep up to date with the case. , Again, if your loved one died during a crime, the court system should have an advocate for you.
   
   Call your local courthouse and see if they can find one for you. , Meeting others that are in the same 'boat' as you can relieve the pain a great deal.
   
   It is true what they say, 'Misery Loves Company'.
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   Step 3: it is extremely hard to come to grips with it.

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   Step 4: If you don't have some type of built in support group

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   Step 5: find one.

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   Step 6: Give yourself some time.

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   Step 7: Find some support groups.

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   Step 8: Speak out.

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   Step 9: Find an advocate.

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    Step 10: Find support groups.

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