How to Know if You Are Irritating

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: When conversing

   Has the other person said anything in the last 2 minutes? Have they responded to anything you said either verbally or physically?
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   Step 2: pay attention to how often the conversational ball is passed.

   Are their arms crossed? Do they appear stiff? Are their eyes drifting away while you speak? Are their feet moving slowly, but steadily in the opposite direction of you? , Have they used more than a 1-3 word sentence while speaking with you? , while you were speaking. ,,,,, Some people will feel more able to show their irritation than others.
   
   While some find it quite easy, others try so hard to be polite and those people may worry that they will seem rude or that they will hurt your feelings.
   
   These individuals may have been irritated for some time by you but you never suspected.
   
   They also are the people you mostly want to keep by your side, so change and repay their patience! , Pretend not to hear anything that you say? Do they suddenly walk away while you are in the middle of a sentence and go off to talk to someone that isn't appearing irritating? , It means they don't want to hear you out anymore and that you're irritating them.
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   Step 3: Pay attention to their body language.

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   Step 4: Do their replies seem short?

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   Step 5: Listen to notice whether they have cursed at you or mumbled under their breath phrases like

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   Step 6: "Whatever"

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   Step 7: "Oh Please"

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   Step 8: and the most obvious

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   Step 9: "Why won't he/she just shut up?"

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    Step 10: If they occasionally seem to huff or breathe heavily

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    Step 11: unless it is appropriate to the conversation

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    Step 12: this would be another good indication.

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    Step 13: If they print this out and leave it somewhere that they want you to find it.

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    Step 14: If someone says "You're irritating" or something equivalent

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    Step 15: that should be indicative of your character.

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    Step 16: but not least

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    Step 17: if they walk away from you while you are talking to them

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    Step 18: it is a good sign that they find you irritating.

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    Step 19: Consider the other person's nature.

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    Step 20: Do they ignore you?

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    Step 21: If they keep cutting short your jokes

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    Step 22: or news or topic on current events

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    Step 23: saying they've heard it before.

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