How to Be Happy After a Divorce

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Realize you are not to blame for the outcome of the marriage.

   There were two people involved and it takes both to make a happy marriage.
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   Step 2: Make happiness your primary concern and remember your happiness depends upon yourself no one else can make you happy.

   So think positive and let go of the past. , Go forward and do the things you have always wanted to do. ,, But to make correct decisions you need to learn more about topics like finance, car insurance, investments, things you may not have dealt with before.
   
   This can be done only by learning, reading and contemplating and then taking the decision. , You do not have to be married to be happy.
   
   You can do whatever it is in life that you wanted to do.
   
   You are no longer on a time schedule to meet your partners needs, and you do not have to ask anyone's permission to do anything.
   
   Best of all, you do not have loads of dirty wash. , Join groups if that's what you want to do.
   
   Read a book on the park bench, go to a movie, or just watch the soaps on TV.
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   Step 3: Identify your goals in life

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   Step 4: and figure out how to achieve them.

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   Step 5: Join an active Support Group if you think you need it.

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   Step 6: Understand that you are a person in your own right and that you can make your own decisions.

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   Step 7: Look forward to the future.

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   Step 8: Accept that you are divorced.

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