How to Avoid Drama with Your Best Friend

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Look at it from their point of view if you are fighting.

   Did you do something to make them angry? Are they hurt? If so, why?
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   Step 2: Write a letter or a little note saying that you are sorry and you can't stand fighting with them

   Most likely he or she is thinking the same thing! , Alternatively, hand the note directly to them. , In messaging or call, your friend may have blocked you.
   
   Then, write a note or an email. , Sometimes, fights can leave people hurt. , Maybe even your mom because she has the best support and advice! Remember, she used to be a kid, too. , Try hanging out with some of your other friends more often.
   
   They just need time.
   
   Time heals.
   
   Stop the usual calling or texting and wait for them to forgive you. , After a fight, a true friend forgives you.
   
   If they don't, they are not true friends.
   
   Ditch them and look for others.
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   Step 3: even if you think they should apologize first.

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   Step 4: Slip the note into their locker

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   Step 5: or a place where you know she will get it - without other people getting to it first.

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   Step 6: Try sending an e-mail or IM or even a text message if the note does not work.

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   Step 7: Realize that they may need time to cool off before they can fully forgive you.

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   Step 8: Talk to your other friends if you're not sure what's going on.

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   Step 9: Keep in mind that this happens a lot to best friends when they need space.

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    Step 10: Understand that if they do not end up forgiving you

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    Step 11: you are probably better off without them.True friends don't fight much.

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