How to Hold Hands With Your Girl/Boy Friend
Put your hand near his/hers., Move your hand even closer, and soon, very slowly put your hand in his/hers., If your boyfriend or girlfriend seems to be enjoying himself/herself, holding hands with you, this is good., Congrats!, Move on to hugs, more...
Step-by-Step Guide
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Step 1: Put your hand near his/hers.
This works well if you are sitting or walking next to each other, but make sure his/her hand is at his/her side.
Hold your hand very close to his/hers, even maybe touching a bit, but look straight ahead.
Don't freak out or stare down at your hands. -
Step 2: Move your hand even closer
Close it around his/her hand.
This would be a good time to look up at him/her.
If he/she just stares at you, smile.
If he/she pulls away, just quit all together.
He/She is just not ready to do this yet. , He/she is comfortable with this, and if you think you are ready, intertwine your fingers in his/hers.
He/She will eat this up! , You are holding hands with your cutie! If he/she doesn't like it, don't worry! He or she is nervous and just not ready! If he or she pulls away, do not try to hold hands with him/her again that day! , This is a slower process.
Do not move into this too fast.
If you do, he/she will think that you are a creep and will make fun of you behind your back. , It's okay if he/she either jerks away, or looks down.
Everyone has his/her own speed.
If you freak out he/she will understand.
But just keep trying different days until he/she is ready.
If you don't feel comfortable, you are okay! Holding hands isn't the most important thing to do in a relationship. -
Step 3: and soon
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Step 4: very slowly put your hand in his/hers.
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Step 5: If your boyfriend or girlfriend seems to be enjoying himself/herself
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Step 6: holding hands with you
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Step 7: this is good.
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Step 8: Congrats!
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Step 9: Move on to hugs
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Step 10: more touching
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Step 11: and maybe a little kissing!
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Step 12: Don't feel embarrassed!
Detailed Guide
This works well if you are sitting or walking next to each other, but make sure his/her hand is at his/her side.
Hold your hand very close to his/hers, even maybe touching a bit, but look straight ahead.
Don't freak out or stare down at your hands.
Close it around his/her hand.
This would be a good time to look up at him/her.
If he/she just stares at you, smile.
If he/she pulls away, just quit all together.
He/She is just not ready to do this yet. , He/she is comfortable with this, and if you think you are ready, intertwine your fingers in his/hers.
He/She will eat this up! , You are holding hands with your cutie! If he/she doesn't like it, don't worry! He or she is nervous and just not ready! If he or she pulls away, do not try to hold hands with him/her again that day! , This is a slower process.
Do not move into this too fast.
If you do, he/she will think that you are a creep and will make fun of you behind your back. , It's okay if he/she either jerks away, or looks down.
Everyone has his/her own speed.
If you freak out he/she will understand.
But just keep trying different days until he/she is ready.
If you don't feel comfortable, you are okay! Holding hands isn't the most important thing to do in a relationship.
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