How to Tell a Female Best Friend You've Developed Feelings for Her

Step-by-Step Guide

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   Step 1: Develop a deep and loving friendship with the girl for a while (in some cases a year or two would be probably best).

   Go shopping, take her out to a movie, even to a family reunion. , Start gently and work your way up.
   
   Start by shaking hands.
   
   Then make a routine of punching fists every time you see her.
   
   Give a not too close hug.
   
   On a special occasion give a real hug.
   
   Then poke her playfully every once in a while.
   
   This might help her develop feelings for you.
   
   It will certainly strengthen your friendship. ,,, Hopefully, she'll be asking you to show her how much you love her.
   
   You kiss her (believe me she'll be impressed). ,, She might just not be ready.If you still care for her, stay friends.
   
   Definitely don't act upset or make her feel bad.
   
   You've planted a seed in her mind, and she might realize later she feels the same way. ,
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   Step 2: Take every opportunity you can to hang out with this girl.

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   Step 3: Touch her frequently.

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   Step 4: Always bring her around family; they'll make her feel special plus they will think she is your girlfriend - do not confirm that she is indeed your girl

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   Step 5: but don't deny it either; just keep quiet and let things run their course.

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   Step 6: Get some time alone with her to talk.

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   Step 7: Let her know how your feelings for her have changed and how you feel you two should be together.

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   Step 8: Ask her how she feels about you and to make a decision.

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   Step 9: If she says no

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    Step 10: don't give up

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    Step 11: it might just take more time.

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    Step 12: Don't stay in the "friend zone" too long

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    Step 13: or she'll feel awkward about the situation.

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